INFJ Memes

While there are lots of memes for INFJ's out there, these are some that I relate to particularly well.

  • All
  • All but risque
  • Friendship
  • Love
  • In my head
  • The Truth Hurts
  • Risque

Thoughts to words

If you really want to know my thoughts on something, ask me to write them out and give me at least a full day to figure out what I think.

Six hours later

INFJs typically are not the best at thinking on their feet, but give awesome results given enough time.

First comes love, then comes... marriage?

I historically have moved very fast in relationships, which I attribute to many stereotypical INFJ traits. I've been burned by it, and am actively guarding against this now.

I'm Weird

Yes, after you get to know me, it's my nature to share my flaws, and wonder why you're interested in me.

How does one flirt?

This one makes me laugh out loud. Stereotypical INFJs don't know how to flirt, and yes, my version of flirting is sharing something I find cool that I don't share with many other people. But I also do that with close friends, so... yeah, I struggle to flirt. 😂

Caring

INFJs are very private people known for having deep feelings (even though we can't always verbalize how we feel)

Soul Bonds

INFJs typically only have a handful of friends, but they're generally the deepest. People with other types regularly say their deepest friendships are with the INFJ they know. I want an incredibly deep relationship with my significant other.

Date Talk

When you get an INFJ talking about something they're interested in, expect to go down a rabbit hole.

Okay?

It's really hard to tell if an INFJ is okay or not.

Feel love

😮‍💨 Like most INFJs, I care and love deeply. Feeling loved is something I struggle with. There's all sorts of psychology stuff behind this, but a large part of it is that INFJs struggle to express their needs. I'm working on this.

Layers

INFJs have many layers. What you think is the inside of an INFJ is probably another layer.

Hobbies

I actually do have more hobbies than this, but yes, INFJs really do enjoy their alone time.

Flirt

INFJs are horrible at speaking and understanding flirts! PLEASE tell me if you're flirting with me so I can recognize it, and help me learn how to flirt back. Otherwise, you'll get racoons!

I'm fine...

... No I'm not. I just don't want to burden you with my needs. This isn't healthy, and I'm actively learning how to express my needs.

Best and Worst

INFJs are known for being walking contradictions. There's nuance to the contradictions, and that applies here. I'm both awesome and don't care what you think, AND I feel like I'm not good enough.

I'm INFJ!

I saw these four-letter codes on dating profiles and found they were Myers-Briggs types. I took an online test, which resulted in me being typed as INFJ-A. As I read about the INFJ personality type, it felt like the description was able to tell more about me than I could tell about myself. Understanding why I feel like a misfit is awesome!

Another flirt meme

INFJs are horrible at speaking and understanding flirts! PLEASE tell me if you're flirting with me so I can recognize it, and help me learn how to flirt back. Otherwise, you'll get racoons!

Letting others in

I strongly resist letting people into my inner world. While some friends have been let in, other friends have just seen the inside from a carefully chosen outside viewpoint.

Let's Talk About...

I love going in depth on mortal existence and purpose... Things that, as a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, I have some answers to, but not all....

Simple People

I don't care about the typical things people use to compare themselves to other people. Like most INFJs, I see people as equals -- wealth and job title don't matter.

Oversharing

I'm typically very quiet and private, but if you get me to open up, I will often share things I regret sharing later (there's another meme about that).

Ignored

Funny, but true. Many of my relationships I've had have been because of someone wanting something from me, overtly or covertly.

Give it time

With the exception of romantic interests, it takes INFJs a long time to form friendships. I want to become friends BEFORE taking a relationship further.

Salty

Yup, I have some salt in me. It's rarely seen though.

What I see

INFJ's primary function is "iNtuitive Intuition" (NI). Sometimes INFJs are labelled as Clairvoyants because we seem to be able to know things magically. It's thought that we pick up on tiny details and interpret them correctly. I look past beauty on the surface to find someone's inner beauty.

Alone, with you

Walking Contradictions... Stereotypical INFJs are fiercely independent but also long for a significant other... who we want to leave us alone a good chunk of the time. 🤷‍♂️

Hidden Emotions

INFJs hide their emotions incredibly well, but on the inside we are full of emotions.

INFJs are both Sapiosexuals and Demisexuals -- attracted to intelligence and emotional connection

Attraction

I am sexually attracted to women I can have deep intellectual and emotional conversations with. For me, that'll win over sexy curves any day.

Talk to me about...

Yup, those things... also add in religion. Note that while it is one of my favorite subjects, I'm very conservative about who I'm willing to talk about sex with.

You can't tell...

INFJs are experts at hiding their emotions. If you're pissing me off, you won't be able to tell unless I want you to know. I'm working on opening up more.

Get to the point

Oh my gosh, yes. Please get to the point and move on. If I don't understand, I'll let you know.

Can't Explain

I know things. I feel things. I can't explain though, unless given lots of time to figure it out.

Caring for others - 1

Typical INFJs care deeply for others. We know what it feels like to hurt and have nobody care, and don't want others to feel that way.

My masks

I have many masks... What's underneath the masks (plural) is beautiful, but I can't share it with everyone. You've got to stay around to find out.

Caring for others - 2

Typical INFJs care deeply for others. We give even when we don't have anything left ourselves. This isn't healthy, and I'm working on finding the line on when to give or not.

Through The Roof

😳 Accurate description. Yup.

Complicated

INFJs are really complex people with tons of quirks, and it's hard to find someone who loves our quirks.

Fake Laugh

Seriously, can't you tell it's a courtesy laugh???

Fake People

INFJs look past the surface and see what people are hiding. A notable exception is that INFJs misread other INFJ's.

You three

Yup, I'm working on that.

Time needed

It takes typical INFJs a while to process our thoughts and feelings. Please be patient with me.

Derr.. what?

I can have a conversation, but to get my most important thoughts & feelings expressed properly, I need to write them.

Alone with you (2)

INFJs like solitude, but with a good enough relationship, being with the special someone doesn't drain the INFJ battery.

Boundaries

Right now, my boundaries seem to be a mix of the 20's and 30's as shown in the image. I've been in the "20's" for too long. Working on having good boundaries and enforcing them in healthy ways.

Armor

Contrary to the meme, I wear masks -- many. But yes, they're all designed for protection. The masks are designed to only show one or two facets of who I am.

Nuances

INFJs are complex -- walking contradictions. So many nuances, and most people don't want to understand the nuances.

Alone Time

I need my alone time -- even if I'm married, I need some time that I'm truly just by myself doing something I want to do.

Phone Calls

INFJs don't like phone calls -- we find them intrusive and startling. We have to respond on the spot, which we don't like. Unless we need a long conversation, I prefer texts from most people. Phone calls from my S.O. are welcome.

Work Better Alone

I work much better alone than I do in groups.

Weirdness hidden!

Yes I am weird, but thanks to my masks you've only caught a glimpse!

In Desert

This isn't an INFJ-specific meme, but it applies to pretty much every INFJ on the interwebs.

Think, Write, Speak

I can have good conversations, but I need to write to express my most important and complex thoughts.

Oops

The creator misspelled oops and it bugs me. Yeah, our ability to speak isn't the best.

If you are romantically interested...

While I don't have sex before marriage, my sexual attraction is highly influenced by intelligence & emotional bond.